Swingers Lifestyle Travel Check List
- Mizzy Bender
- Apr 4
- 4 min read
Updated: 1 day ago
Swingers Lifestyle Travel Check List
Are you headed to your first swingers lifestyle party and don't know what to pack? Don't worry—I've got you covered! Here's your ultimate packing list to ensure your night/weekend is exciting, comfortable, and unforgettable:
Outfit Options: Pack something that makes you feel confident and sexy. When we think swinger party
we automatically think half naked, but that is not the case. You are allowed to wear whatever you want! I always recommend dressing in theme simply because it brings the night to life, but it is never mandatory. The most important thing is that you feel good. If you don't feel good, the odds of having a great night are slim to none. Take it from experience.
Pineapple Swinger Stuff: The upside down pineapple has become a popular swinger sign. Many like to include the pineapple swinger sign on their person or room decor.
Sexy Accessories: Don't forget items like masks, head pieces, pasties wigs, or body jewelry to add to your glam. Go bold with glitter and body paint. Your body is a canvas to be as creative as you would like. Men, same for you. Accessorize with your shoes, belts, vests. Think outside of the box.
Hygiene Kit: In my travel bag to the party, I always have a hygiene hit. I am constantly stopping by my bag to freshen up. Between dancing, eating, drinking, and whatever else, I always want to feel my freshest. Please also clean up after you play. No one wants leftover sex smell kisses good bye.
Miscellaneous Hotel Room Items: When attending swingers hotel takeovers, its fun to decorate your door, bring snacks or giveaways. When we travel for an event weekend, we like to make our room as cozy as possible.
Personal Items: This is probably a no brainer, but I have left home without my ID. It certainly makes for a complicated travel when you are out of state. I also keep a photo of my ID on my phone just in case.
Swingers Play Bag: Always have a separate bag with your play items readily available. I would actually keep my hygiene kit in this bag also.
Food and Beverage: I like to meal prep, so I bring a lot with me when it comes to food. Depending on where we are, I will bring some sort breakfast. Usually Greek yogurt and berries or oatmeal and fruit. Lately I have been bringing our Factor meals for lunch and dinner. This has helped me stay on track as I navigate the 75 day challenge. Lately we haven't been bringing many snacks, but usually pick up at least one through the weekend.
Confidence and Open Mind: Lastly—and most importantly—bring your confidence and an open mind. You're stepping into a new exciting, overwhelming world; being open and respectful is key!
Swingers Travel Check List
Swingers Travel Check List:
Travel outfit
Day time outfit for venturing out
Dinner outfit
Comfy lounge outfit / sleep attire
Party outfit #1 for each day: Start the night in this choice
Party outfit #2 for each day: Change around midnight
Party shoes for each day
Sneakers to change into at midnight
Sexy play outfits
Travel Cup / Adult Beverages of Choice
Bathing Suit & Towel (for weekend takeovers)
Accessories for each outfit
Earrings
Necklace
Bracelet
Rings
Glitter
Gems
Lashes (glue)
Headpiece
Belt
Pasties
Wig / Hair piece
Hygiene Kit
Baby wipes
Deodorant
Body spray / Cologne
Gum / Mints
Lube
Condoms
Miscellaneous Hotel Room Items:
Candle / Incent (be cautious on fire rules)
Gallon water bottles
Lighting
Theme decor if a hotel takeover
Door decor if a hotel takeover
Giveaway such as shots, snacks, beads etc if a hotel takeover
Blanket from home - it keeps me cozy
Charges for phone, recording devices, ring lights
Personal Items
ID
Cash / Credit Cards
Swingers Play Bag
Hygiene Bag
Dildos
Blue Chews
Cock Rings
BDSM Toys
Any specific to your play needs
Food and Beverage
Water
Adult Beverage
Mixer
Shot Glass
Meals
Snacks
Liquid IV
Protein / Granola Bar
Some sort of Carb
If you think something else should be added, send me an email: MizzyBender@outlook.com
Stay Safe!
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
XOXO,
Mizzy
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Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Adult Lifestyle community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.
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