Adult Lifestyle Parties Club Rules: For the New Swingers
Mindful Mizzy
1.6.25
As we head into a new year of adult lifestyle parties (swingers parties), I thought it was a good idea to outline club rules. Each week we will dive deeper into etiquette and “expectations” of all party goers. If at any time you are unsure or see something out of line, please find a team member that we have stationed at the door. They will find Spencer or I immediately. If you are attending another event, please find an appropriate staff member.
Safe words: RED - stop immediately / YELLOW - check in/slow down.
NO means NO. This applies to dancing, dungeon scenes, play scenes, touching (a person or devices) - overall it applies to any inappropriate behavior.
Be aware of your surroundings. This is for your safety and the safety of others
Do not interrupt a scene whether in the dungeon or play space.
If you are unsure how to use a piece of furniture, please find a team member.
If a door is closed, do not enter. If the door is open, you may watch from the doorway only.
If in an open play space, you may watch from a reasonable distance. Do not put your hands on anyone.
In play areas, keep your conversations to a minimum. Be respectful of the environment.
Staff have the right to observe scenes to ensure the safety of party goers.
Clean up after yourselves. There are wipes, towels, sheets, condoms for your use. Leave the space the way you found it.
Do not record video or take photos of others unless approval has been granted. If we see suspicious behaviour, we will question you.
Over consuming alcohol is never a good thing. Please be mindful.
Be discreet and respect privacy
Consent is key in everything you will do within the adult lifestyle space. Attending a swingers party is much more than just hooking up. You need to know your surroundings and respect the rules to ensure the safety of everyone around you.
While attending a Mindbender Parties event, you will always see the team walking around, checking in on the surroundings and people. Since our club setup allows open play every where, we are constantly watching the crowd and interactions to ensure the rules of the night are being met. It is impossible to have eyes everywhere, so we do expect that you report any misconduct so we can act accordingly and in a speedy fashion.
If you see something, you say something!
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon,
Mizzy
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